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His book and her book from Adam and Sarah Zade

From Adam & Sarah Zade, 81 and 79.
A lifetime of house rules, written down.

His book. Her book. One marriage that lasts.

Twenty-six rules on money, love and health, each written from one side of the table. A private education in how a lasting marriage is kept.

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Two books. Two honest voices.

FOR HIM · by Adam

The Man She Stays For

Adam’s counsel to husbands. Twenty-six rules on money, love and health for becoming the man a woman chooses to stay for.

Never: let your wife learn about your money from a stranger.
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FOR HER · by Sarah

The Woman He Comes Home To

Sarah’s counsel to wives. Twenty-six rules on money, love and health for becoming the woman a good man hurries home to.

Never: greet him with a problem before you’ve greeted him with a smile.
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What’s inside

Three things every marriage runs on

Money

No secret accounts, no debt for wants, a cushion for bad Tuesdays and a map if one of you is gone.

Love

Listening, apologizing without a “but”, flirting at 80, and the bedroom, honestly. One for one.

Health

The walk, the sleep, the strong legs and the check-up that keep you both here at eighty.

Three rules from inside

“Never answer ‘what’s wrong?’ with ‘nothing’ when it’s something.”

“Never greet him with a problem before you’ve greeted him with a smile.”

“Never let your pleasure be the end of hers.”

Look inside

Real pages. Real rules.

Every chapter: a kitchen-table story, a margin note from the other spouse, one rule and one thing to do tonight.

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A page from The Woman He Comes Home To
A page from The Woman He Comes Home To
A page from The Woman He Comes Home To

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A Zade book with a name printed on the cover

A gift they’ll keep

Their name on the cover

Choose “Want it personalised?” at checkout. We print their name on the cover and the title page, with a line from you. Buying both books? Give each book its own name.

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Why couples pick the Zades

What you getZade booksA typical marriage bookFree advice online
Both sides of the marriageYesRarelyNo
Money, love and health togetherYesNoScattered
One small action every chapterYesSometimesNo
Honest about the bedroomYesRarelyMixed
Finished in a week of eveningsYesNoEndless

Simple on purpose

How it works

  1. Download in secondsYour link appears on screen and in your inbox.
  2. Read one rule tonightEach chapter ends with one small thing to do. Ten minutes.
  3. Share the otherGive the second book to your spouse, so you both read from the same page.

Questions

Is this a religious book?

No. It is written for every couple. Some rules quote very old teachings because they are wise, and every source is listed at the back. You never need to share anyone’s faith to use them.

Are Adam and Sarah real?

They are characters created by Digital Zades. The stories carry the lessons. The rules are real habits that lasting couples share, and the old teachings are real and sourced.

My spouse won’t read a marriage book.

That is exactly why there are two. Read yours, keep the rules, and offer them theirs when the moment is right. Each chapter takes about ten minutes.

How do I get it?

Instantly. A download link appears on screen and in your email, and the books stay in My Library forever. Read on your phone, tablet or computer, or print them.

Can I put a name on the cover?

Yes, free. Open “Want it personalised?” at checkout. With both books you can give each book its own name.

What if a file doesn’t work?

Email us and we fix it or refund it. Because these are instant downloads, other refunds are not offered once downloaded.

Sarah and Adam Zade

Rules are rules, dear.

Start with one rule tonight.

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Adam and Sarah Zade are characters created by Digital Zades. The rules and the old teachings are real. General guidance only, not medical, legal or financial advice.

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