The Man She Stays For
Adam’s counsel to husbands. Twenty-six rules on money, love and health for becoming the man a woman chooses to stay for.

Adam, 81 & Sarah, 79
Two books and three 30-day challenges for money, love and health. Plain words, ten minutes a day, and your name printed inside.
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Twenty-six rules on money, love and health, each written from one side of the table. A private education in how a lasting marriage is kept.
Adam’s counsel to husbands. Twenty-six rules on money, love and health for becoming the man a woman chooses to stay for.
Sarah’s counsel to wives. Twenty-six rules on money, love and health for becoming the woman a good man hurries home to.

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Five quick questions. You get a score out of 10 and the one rule to start with. There’s a Love Score and Porch Tests too.
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